Christian dating for dummies
The first step in dating should always be the step of faith we take toward our Lord, Savior, and greatest Treasure, King Jesus.
He captures our into his goal and plan for our life: to make disciples who love him with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength. Will we trust him, even when we want something else for ourselves?
Great relationships always start with great communication, and great communication is always direct: “I’d love to get to know you more over coffee…are you free any evening this week?
” Now that’s what I call a perfect way to get a date. One of my readers left a funny comment saying something about how he wants to write a book about dating for Christians summed up in one sentence: His comment got me laughing out loud, because he’s totally on to something.
Her newest relationship book is set to be released in the Summer of 2018!
And no one will truly love you if they do not love God more than they love you.
It’s so true that Christians tend to freak out about dating.
We want so badly to do it right, and to do it in a way that honors God.
If our heart is not there — if our soul is not already safe through faith, if our mind is distracted and focused on other, lesser things, if our best strength is being spent on the things of this world — jobs, sports, shopping, entertainment, relationships, and on God — we simply will not date well. Listen to Jesus, and “love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.” Seek him first (Matthew ), and dating will be added according to his perfect plan and timing. It’s not the first rule, but I have found that it is a “golden rule” that most often makes the difference between healthy and unhealthy Christian dating relationships.
But after embracing and applying the first and greatest commandment, I have found that the . If you’re not a Christian — if you haven’t dealt with God before trying to date — you don’t have a chance of having a truly healthy Christian relationship with someone else.